Taking the Plunge:
5 Tips for Couples Who Are Just Starting to Get Intimate
By: Amy Rowan
So, you and your partner are ready to take things to the next level—exciting times! Navigating the new waters of intimacy can be thrilling but also a bit daunting. Worry not! Whether you're exploring these waters for the first time or with a new partner, we have some hot tips to make your journey smooth and enjoyable. Let's get into it!
- Prioritize Your Health
First things first: health is sexy! Make routine STI testing a part of your relationship routine. Knowing that you both have a clean bill of health will let you dive into your experiences with peace of mind. And hey, while we’re on the topic, doubling up on birth control methods is a smart play if you’re not ready for mini-yous just yet. Remember, even the best plans can fail, so it’s cool to have a backup.
- Chat It Out
Grab a comfy spot and have a candid chat about your likes, dislikes, and boundaries before things heat up. This isn’t just good manners; it’s also about making sure you both have the best time possible. Ask questions like, "What do you enjoy?" or "Is there anything that's off-limits?" Your partner will not only appreciate the openness but will also be eager to make the experience wonderful for you.
- Let Go of Expectations
Real talk: Forget those steamy scenes from movies—they're choreographed to perfection, unlike real life. When you’re getting intimate, it’s okay to have a giggle or two when things don’t go as planned. Relax and remember, this isn’t a performance—it’s supposed to be fun! Drop the script and enjoy the spontaneous moments that make your experiences uniquely yours.
- Stop the Comparisons
Here’s a not-so-secret tip: don’t bring your exes to bed—not literally, of course, but mentally either. Comparing your partner or yourself to past conquests is a surefire mood killer. Stay in the moment, focus on your current partner, and remember that every experience and every connection is different. Keep the focus on creating something great together.
- Slow It Down
When things start heating up, it’s easy to rush towards the 'big O,' but hey, let’s slow down and savor the journey. Focus on the pleasure of the experience rather than just the climax. When you concentrate on enjoying each other, everything else, including orgasms, will likely follow—and even if they don't, the ride will still be amazing. Set your sights on fun and pleasure, and let the good times roll. (IG)
There you have it—five top tips for navigating the exciting beginnings of intimacy with your partner. Keep these pointers in mind, and you’re set for a joyful, healthy, and deeply satisfying journey together. Dive in, laugh a lot, and cherish every moment of discovery. Happy exploring!